How Confidence Eqautes To Hooking Up With Women

This is such a vital and important subject! As men you have to know this through and through!

Confidence without substance (or nothing behind it backing it up) is nothing more than arrogance! And knowing that can make all the difference from you as a man being blown off or blown...

You see, women, for all our flaws you think we may have, absolutely know the difference between a man who thinks he confident, but really is arrogant, and a man who has confidence due to his vast experience.

Guess which one we are going home with?

That was a rhetorical question, if you for one moment thought to yourself, "uh, arrogant?" then quit reading right this very moment! I can not help you yet. You need to go back to "dating for noobs!" and after passing through them, then come back to me.

The irony in all this is that in order to get the confidence, you need the experience. Without it, you will just come across as an arrogant ass that out on the dance floor annoying us girls with your "I am not getting any tonight!" dance moves.

Thus the vital importance of this all. Why I will continue to push you to just get out there and experiment with something every day! Just say hi to every passing girl with a smile and direct eye contact.

Soon you will be seeing them shy away after saying hi. You might even over hear them say to one of their friends, "he's cute!"

Now, I ask you, if you can get to the point that almost every girl you say hi to at least says hi back, but often you get the head down shy look (body language saying she is digging you) or the occasional "he's cute", do you THINK you will start to have some confidence building in you?

Another rhetorical, keep up with me honey!

From there you can move on to asking for a casual "time shared" scenario (stay away from the term "dating", it puts the women on guard and apprehensive).

Just ask to buy them a cup of coffee or if you know where she is going to be, surprise her with a drink. Maybe a cola on a hot day or something. This is non-threatening and gives you more time to be with her and work your magic!

The point here is to get experience under your belt as fast as possible so that you can build up that confidence! Then you can go up to girls in the future and start a conversation but they will see the confidence of a man with experience, instead of a bloated ego ass that will be going home with just his hand again tonight!

Until next time, remember, no Glove, no Love!

~Venus
http://gotvenus.com - for the boys
http://venusormars.com/getmars - for the girls
http://myspace.com/gotvenus - self explanatory - but damn! She's sexy!

Venus Does A PSA...

It had just occurred to me, that my topics are always about hooking up, but I have yet to do my part for a Public Service Announcement.

And really, it is my fault, because for some reason (probably association because I do) I assume that everybody is practicing safe sex! But I never have made sure to remind you guys!

Guys - listen, fun is fun for shizzle! But being a daddy means manning up and being a father! And if you are not ready for that role, it comes as a shock! Think your bills are expensive? Try child support! How great would it be to be pulled over for a broken tail light and going to jail for back child support? And if you made it through all that...there's always STDs trying to attach themselves to you. A lot of that can not be cured with a shot or just a pill, you know. SO - My advice to you is to ALWAYS (never an exception - raw dog don't do) WRAP THAT RASCAL!

Girls - truth is men are, well, they are just men. So it is best to protect yourself ALWAYS for the exact same reasons above (even child support in some cases). Just be prepared, that way you will know. And in the case where you don't have any, and he isn't carrying either - force that trip to the corner store! LIVE BY THE MOTTO GIRLS - NO GLOVE, NO LOVE!

Okay - my commitment has been fulfilled...

~Venus
http://gotvenus.com - for the boys
http://venusormars.com/getmars - for the girls
http://myspace.com/gotvenus - self explanatory - but damn! She's sexy!

Gentlemen, I Require Your Assistance, Please!

Alright Guys,

I got myself in trouble. I was having a "debate" with a friend about my methods, and other methods, and other hooking up ideas.

Long story short, I opened my mouth and stated I could create a program that could help much more than half the products out there I'm seeing. Some of the articles I read about dating and hooking up I wonder if the author even realized that's the subject? Just because something worked one time for a man, does not make it the norm for all men, yet that is what I see a lot!

Well, I felt the sting of the words as they were spoken towards me..."prove it!"

So, I am not sure what I got myself into, but I could really, really, use your help. It is not going to be anything hard.

I would like you to send me the top 5 questions you have and want answered about hooking up, dating, or women in general.

Will you do that for me? I can give you a reason to...your questions might be part of the subject matter of my project that I have dared myself into. Plus, I might even give you some drafts while it is being created, giving YOU the first look at it and to use its methods first.

It may sound cliche' but, help me to help you. Give me the subjects you want the most help with...please?

Okay, email your questions, suggestions to :
askvenus@myway.com

And let me thank you in advance, THANK YOU!

~Venus

P.S. By the way, did you know I have another blog? It has been up and running a while now. Go check it out! It is at http://gotvenus.wordpress.com