New York City Rates Venus A "Five-Star Sexmate".

I thought that I would participate in a "sexuality quiz" interview because I thought it would be fun!

I wanted to know what the pros thought of me, Seductress, Safe, or Slut. The results are in (and might I just add to those who know, according to this you are some lucky bastards! ;^} ):

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Venus, here are our finding...

"Five-Star Sexmate

Doing it with the lights on so bright, he can see your
every freckle 'n' curve? Oh yeah! A delicious new
move involving his favorite food group? On the menu
tonight! "You're execeptionally confident about your
body, you love initiating new positions with your guy,
and you don't apologize for going after your pleasure,"
says Logan Levkoff, a sex educator and sexologist in
New York City. What does it all add up to? One
seriously satisfied chick who makes men quake so
much with pleasure, their packages practically need a
seismograph!

Another sign of your knack in the sack: You aren't
afraid to give a guy a carnal tutorial. If he's not
touching you in the right spots or his definition of
doggie-style is him howling while you do all the work,
you won't suck it up and hope for a miracle. "You
know you deserve to feel incredible every single time
and won't shy away from showing him how to please
you," says Bonnie Eaker Weil, PhD, a psychotherapist
in New York City and author of Make Up, Don't Break
Up. "You're also comfortable enough with your
sexuality that you'll pleasure yourself in front of him."
Just make sure that during the bump and grind, you
don't bulldoze guys who are less sexually secure than
you are. As long as you show them the way gently,
they'll happily work on catching up."

How Do I Hook Up With This Guy?!?!?

This email came to me, and I thought I should answer it here in my blog.

I think that it is great that other girls are coming to me for advice. I am used to having the opposite, bitching at me for my advice to men.







"How can I arouse turn on a guy without even touching him?"

It is fall, that means that it is the perfect time to play to a man's fantasy girl! I guarantee 75% of men have a fantasy about a sexy chic in a school girl uniform.

No need for physical contact.

Wear a lace set (white, of course to subconsciously mind F-him > makes him subconsciously believe you're a virgin and he is going to be the first to explore that territory!) of bra and panties.

Wear a plaid skirt just above the knee height. Wear a white button up men's shirt with the buttons undone as low as you're comfortable (but if you want to drive him absolutely F-ing nuts, keep it unbuttoned and just tie it around just below your breasts).

Wear your hair in either pig tails or a pony tail and upon meeting him walk up to him in "model" style (cross legs as you walk forward-making sure to make those hips talk as you walk).

And when you are about half way between the starting point of seeing him and getting to him, exaggerate taking your hair out of the pig tails or pony tail letting your hair drop.

Stop in front of him and tilt your head to one side and give him the innocent-take me look (girls you know the one).

If he does not have an erection by the time you have stopped in front of him...he might be gay!

~ Venus